"emue-hmor-ptou-gmfr"
This is what I got by the following naive guess: Pick the letter from the phrase according to the number at the end (first letter if there is no number), and if there is a *, count the letters from the last one in reverse order.
Judging the hint, the idea above is probably not right: Another possible approach seems to be to look for missing letters in the phrases. I haven't tried it yet. grimwerk's hint also suggests that, in the sense that the "a" is missing in quandary. So for example, a letter "s" may be added to the first phrase, and so on. However I have no idea what those numbers should mean - perhaps the number of letters that are missing?
Actually, probably the letters in the phrases should be re-ordered, as in, "a quandry" can be re-organized as "quandary". Still don't know what the numbers and * mean, but this now seems to be a puzzle more suited for those more familiar with English.
Post edited June 08, 2013 by dizcology