randomuser.833: I know you want to believe, that the majority is like you and wants MP so bad.
Plok_HR: I have run several communities where I've encountered, at this point, thousands upon thousands of RTS players of varying tastes. I've covered mods for news updates, I've helped run a multiplayer server that replaced GameSpy when that went down, even modded some minor tournaments. I know what people do, and what they want. Your 2-3 friends do not even come close to the same zip code of that sample size. Now you tell me who projects their own preferences here.
randomuser.833: And now don't come up with "but these are very different people to the RTS players".
Plok_HR: lol. Just stop talking now, it's clear you have absolutely no relevant experience to talk about this topic.
And now there is your problem.
You meet thousands upon thousands players of various RTS games.
And the copies sold of those games are in the millions upon millions - when talking about the big older ones even for single games.
So, you meet like 1% to 10% of the people who actually bought the game.
The "problem" of the internet is, you overestimate the size of a like minded group..
If there is one guy in every village, who plays online, that is a huge absolute number.
In that village there are 9 guys the same age who do not. And without the internet that guy would be very alone.
If it is like that everywhere, you got this huge number of online players, who just make up 10% of the people who own and play the game.
I mean, I helped out at bigger lan parties myself. We got hundreds of players there. It was crowded.
Those hundreds of people came from an area of estimated 5000km² with roughly 300000 people living in that area.
And there we are, we little not even 0,1%...
And it was not an only RTS Lan...Actually, RTS weren't even played there, because not enough people wanted to play them.
It seems like this is something over your head. You are in a world wide community, with people from all over the world.
You know what those people want. Sure. Not speaking against that.
But based on the copies of games sold, those people are just a small margin.
I don't even want to attack what you did or something like that. But numbers that do look big at first can be small when seen together with other numbers.
And in the old days (and Dawn of War one will soon become 20) high speed internet connections were not widely available for the people. Not outside of the areas with very dense population and often enough even there you shouldn't bet on it back then. My first "high speed" connection was 75 to 150 kbit/s (yeah, not mbit, kbit) after moving to a bigger town.
Not only talking about germany but about Europe and North America.
Might be you lived in a well suited area, but those were not normal.
It simply seems like you are overestimating your personal experience.