Posted October 25, 2023

Guess it depends more on what the focus is though. Eroge visual novels tend to basically be erotica, while RPG games have offshoots that involve mostly optional sexual sequences which can be ignored and a story still uncovered that can be quite fun.
example: Imperial Gatekeeper. Take Papers Please, but instead of being stuck at one gate with increasing difficulty you are instead sent to different areas, and you could decide to feel up the girls (or guys) (which may be required to convince them to leave their weapon behind when there's a weapon ban). Choose to sexually take advantage of, or be the paragon of virtue and go by the book. Or be a total asshole and take advantage before denying them.
On the other spectrum Succubus Farm a male is caught and trying to escape, get caught or lose and there's an erotic scene. Not very avoidable, and you're more likely to intentionally lose to see what ending it will show you.