solzariv: Is there anyone here currently living as an expatriate (temporary or otherwise) in a foreign country?
What do you do when rent costs more than income (if any)? Do you have a full time job, or are you self-employed? Do your parents occasionally have to help you out?
I've been thinking of living in another country for maybe a year or two, learning a language and whatnot, but these logistical quandaries make me stop in my tracks and hesitate to actually do it.
I'm guessing the country probably also affects difficulty. I can probably do this with less uncertainty if I chose New Zealand/Australia/Canada (same language, cultures aren't as distant to one other), but if it were France/Japan/Iceland/Turkey/Hong Kong/etc. where the language is very different and the employment laws are more strict about non-citizens, I can imagine some expatriates would be put into a zugzwang situation where they have no choice but to eventually pack their bags and go home after a mere few months.
Any advice?
I left the US almost 12 years ago to move to Bangkok, Thailand. Been living in Bangkok since then. Would never live in the US again, but that's just me :)
Dead easy to get a job here if you don't mind teaching English, and salaries are good compared to the cost of living (not compared to US salaries of course). There is also NO need to be able to speak Thai (although I can), as most schools don't want you to speak Thai with students anyway, they want you to speak English, and it's possible to get anything done in Thailand even if you have to communicate with sign language and three Thai words :)
There is also a HUGE expat community in Thailand, as tens of thousands of westerners live here teaching English.
As for rent, I rent a large one bedroom apartment in a serviced apartment building that comes with cable TV and weekly maid service. I pay $350 a month, and my rent hasn't increased in 11 years :).
When I was teaching (I don't anymore as I own my own internet business), my rent was about 20 percent of my income. Income when I first started teaching was about 50,000 baht or around $1,550 - cost of living in Bangkok, though, is about 30 percent the cost of the US, so your standard of living on that money is very good.
Great thing about teaching in Thailand, though, is the sky is the limit for how much you want to earn as Thais will pay at least 500 baht an hour ($15.50) for a private lesson, or you can teach evening and weekend classes at a language school, so you can always make extra money if you need to.
My income when I was teaching with just my regular 7:30 to 4:30 job Monday thru Friday, plus two hours two evenings a week teaching corporate classes at a multi-national corporation was about 60,000 baht ($1,850). That's the equivalent of about $5,550 a month in the US, so I easily managed to save $500 to $800 a month.
I own a website about Thailand, and have a huge section of information on teaching English if you're interested to find out more:
http://www.tastythailand.com And this is the section on teaching in Thailand:
http://tastythailand.com/category/teaching-in-thailand/
BTW, I HIGHLY recommend Thailand, Thais are the nicest people in the world. It's a cheap country to live in, yet you get high quality for your money. Thai food is amazing (and as cheap as $1 a meal at a streetside stall) and it's very very safe.
I'm female, travel all over the place by myself and have never ever had a problem with a Thai or felt remotely in danger. I take taxis by myself at 1am or later, and never have problems with taxi drivers, and walking around in Bangkok at midnight doesn't faze me at all. Something I would never have done when I lived in Los Angeles or San Francisco.
Hope this helps a bit?
Honestly, if you're looking for a new experience and a great country to live in, plus a place where it's easy to get a job, you couldn't choose a better place than Thailand.
For most teaching jobs, btw, you must have a university degree but......there are always ways around it, as thousands of people teach here without degrees and have done for years.
EDIT: BTW, if you ever are interested in trying it out, a studio apartment in the building I live in in Bangkok fis about 8,000 baht a month ($246) plus utilities, of course. It's in a fabulous location within walking distance of two big shopping malls, restaurants, bowling alley, 3 movie theaters, and only 5 minutes by bus to the underground train system or the skytrain. It might not be the perfect apartment for you permanently, depending on where you ended up working, but it's a great place to stay for the first month or two while you get settled in. Affordable, clean, very safe (24 hour doorman) and good location.
Let me know if you ever want more info. Delighted to help :)