Posted June 26, 2011

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I am sorry, but to say that a State recognized Civil Union is the same as a Marriage is not correct. Marriage pre-dates all government and was established / ordained by God. To try and force God to recognize a Civil Union between a same sex couple is ridiculous at best and an abomination at worst.
If all one wants is a legally binding contract that is recognized by the State for the purpose of conducting mutually beneficial matters then a civil union or registered partnership may apply. If you want a marriage then you need to meet the criteria. Not my criteria God's.
I understand that in modern times fundamentalists like to bury their heads and pretend that the world is only a handful of thousands of years old, but historically speaking christianity is a very modern religion - evolving from out of Judaism which itself was borrowed from Chaldea/Babylon and thence from India/Egypt. This is a historical and archaelogical fact, with remnants along the way every step of this transition as events were copied and names slowly changed. I do not expect you to accept this, but if you put an ounce of effort into researching religious history you would probably cease being religious.
It always makes me wonder how the religious extremists can fool themselves so thoroughly. You know that the bible was not only written independantly spanning decades to hundreds of years after its subject matter, you know that it is in a form completely - completely - different from that which it was originally, and this is seen by the remnants of ancient biblical manuscrpits which do not match the current. You know that the translations themselves were erroneous at best, and fabricated at worst. You know that various churches have simply made it up as they went along, most noticably the bishop clementus of alexandria and the council of nicea, and you know that every church existant today believes they are right and everybody else is wrong. If they all belive as fervently as each other that each is the sole and true interpretation of the word of god, how can they all be right? If you can believe everybody else to be mistaken about this, why not yourself?
As other posters have said, not only do we as a society have a responsibility to do our best to maintain rational and moral laws that are constantly updated to fit the needs of our philosophies and our changing and evolving society, but marriage in itself has a long and convoluted history of change in different civilisations, including between brothers and sisters in certain circumstances also, by the way.
Marriage is not a religious construct, it is a construct of society, of which religion is also the construct. No wonder that the two have always been closely interrelated, as whatever religion that is present within a society has usually been the repository for all of that society's rituals - it is this fact that would let us deem that body as a religion. It is unfortunate that christianity had the short but thorough stranglehold that it did on western society - and we can see the effects of letting christianity have free reign between the fall of rome and the enlightenment, a little period known as the dark ages because they were so fucking dark - but now fortunately humanity has made good progress at liberation from that immorality, and truly the greatest moral and philosophical abomination as we begin to implement changes, globally, that reflect our greater desire for love and equality - something christianity preaches, but christians never seemed to grasp.
I would love if marriage and associated rituals could be a religious affair. I just don't know of any religion acting mature enough today to handle them.
Edit: by the way, congratulations NY!
Edit 2: I'm not going to arguue against your ridiculous assertion that homosexuality is a choice. You choose to have sex with someone of the same sex, you don't choose to fall in love with them. If you want to research this I suggest using not google but google scholar, as you can set the criteria to match only peer-reviwed scientific studies. Learn your way to compassion.
Post edited June 26, 2011 by brother-eros