StingingVelvet: confusion and repercussions from an actual lack of sexual morality due to the expected morality being unattainable
OK, though I'm having a little trouble parsing this line. Could you maybe give some examples (at least, as far as it's possible to do so on a public forum)?
I already brought up teen pregnancies and unprotected sex, which I said were better described as irresponsible rather than deviant. I can also see a thing with a lack of emotional connection between partners where each party only sees the other as something to be used for gratification, but I'm not sure "deviance" is the word I'd use for that either.
johnki: I mean, I know Japan is really culturally open to sex
I've always wondered about this. I mean, is Japan open to sex in the Dan Savage way that the West would think of the concept, or in some other fashion?